So really, it depends. People can be perfectly happy marrying someone they aren't in love with. If its a good friend, who you love, but aren't smitten with, then it might work out. In fact, itd probably work out better then two people who are smitten with each other, because when you're smitten with someone, you can't see their flaws and you can't see all the things you don't like about them.
And, true love barely exists. So that kind of knocks that out.
The past two weeks have been a mixture of hell and school. My dog died February 3rd and it has hit our family very hard. She was our amazing ball of fluff that was here to make our world better. And truly, she died like she lived, with a bang. Sukka was the most crazy dog, full of life and energy. She never stopped moving. And she died just as suddenly. In and out like a light.
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You're totally right Ariela. Sometimes people can be too in love and oblivious to bad traits in each other that actually matter. But they can also be so in love that they'll go to extremes. Take for example, Romeo and Juliet. Kinda extreme eh??
Well I do disagree with the statement that teenagers can't feel love, even though we have raging hormones etc etc and lots of us think we're in "love" with someone new every two weeks, it's still possible, just not too likely.
I don't think love is really THAT rare of a thing, but it sure seems like it nowadays since it's pretty much lost in all of the bogus crap and war and such out there, everywhere.
But I definitely agree that people who get a crush on someone and it is infatuation, not love, then they refuse to see any negative qualities about them, they're just in love with what they THINK they are.
Love is a really weird thing, cause no other animal feels it, but we're still an animal with instincts to, well, reproduce. But since we're more complex beings that often needs to find more meaning in those basic things, I guess that's where that emotion takes place. But at the same time it's impossible to define and it doesn't have any limits either, so who are we to judge who isn't in love and who is?
But I really don't know anything.
I have to agree with Kira. While it is true that teenagers often jump into "love" too fast, it is possible that your highschool sweetheart could turn into your spouse for life. Very rare? Yes. Possible? Yes. Or maybe I'm just being over romantic ^^. By the way, you had asked me what type of music Gorillaz play. To answer that question best, you'd just have to look them up! My personal opinion is they play somewhat a mixture of genres, from alternative rock to anything you can think of. Except polka. Gross. Ahh, sorry for rambling there! I'm just so into the Gorillaz!
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